Advice for a desperate housewife? ;)?!
Question: Advice for a desperate housewife.? ;).?
I have a much higher sex drive than my husband. He's often too tired, or whatever. But he's told me more than once that he doesn't want me to masturbate and that I should just wait for him. I think this is unfair. What should I do.?Health Question & Answer
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There is obvious disagreement in how much of it both of you want. To make such a relationship work, he must first understand your situation and acknowledge that your desires are greater than him. Once he acknowledges that he should let you play with him whenever you want to.If he does not get aroused, then you should understand this is perhaps not the time but if he does gets aroused and he is being responsive, then it is good for both of you. You both should cooperate with each other. Communication is a must. Try to show interest my 'moves' if you are verbally a bit shy. Do not just hide your feelings for no apparent reason If he is healthy enough, the relationship should be perfect. If he has a bit of problem with libido, both should consult a doctor. Alway be cooperative and supportive of each other and try to do thing that interest him, not just you. I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbation in such a case. Masturbation is never the same as the real experience so you are not stealing anything from him. I would advice consultation depending on how serious the case is. This will also show your husband willing to support you. If he says no, it means he really does not care and you get an idea. Good luck though, at least you say, it is good when you have it.
also please be explorative, dont just always do it in the same place which can get boring easily. Get intimate every where you want to. Encourage your hubby to do the same. May be he wants something extra, communicate with him, what he wants. Good luckHealth Question & Answer
also please be explorative, dont just always do it in the same place which can get boring easily. Get intimate every where you want to. Encourage your hubby to do the same. May be he wants something extra, communicate with him, what he wants. Good luckHealth Question & Answer
just because he is your husband, it doesnt give him the right to say that you cant masturbate.....he has to understand your needs aswell if he is expecting you to understand his....talk to him or get some viagra or something:pHealth Question & Answer
I think you should go ahead and masturbate when he is not around. He does not need to know that you do that anyway especially when it does not effect your sex life with him in any way.Health Question & Answer
See a marriage counselor, I see problems ahead for you if you don't. He is being selfish at best, and at worst, he is, well, he is still being selfish either way.Health Question & Answer
Maybe you should talk to him, and tell him how you feel.
If it's still the same just masturbate when he is not around as the person above said :)Health Question & Answer
If it's still the same just masturbate when he is not around as the person above said :)Health Question & Answer
Masturbation usually is a private thing and NO ONE else should have anything to say about IT!!Health Question & Answer
Just explain your sitution....u dont need marriage consouling..for the idoit for said that. try spicing things up in bed if its dull or boring.Health Question & Answer