Partner with delayed ejaculation....?!


Question: Partner with delayed ejaculation.....?
I have had a new partner for a few weeks, and our sex life is, in his words and mine, the best we have ever had. We have fallen deeply in love, and are even at the stage where we are discussing our futures together, moving in together etc. I have 2 teenagers, and he has a 5 year old daughter, who he has custody of. Everything is absolutely perfect, but he just can't orgasm. He is going through a divorce, after a 15 year marriage, and for the most part of it, it was, to say the least, not a very happy one. His wife was never interested in sex, and although we are like a couple of teenagers, he just can't orgasm. Even after a couple of hours. This isnt a problem for me, but he is getting upset about it. Is there any advice that anyone can give me please.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
i had that problem once, couldnt ejaculate during sex etc.
my conclusion is you should try something new. communicate with
eachother to see what he likes. Its only been a few weeks and its obvious that you have a lot to learn about eachother in the bedroom and out. Talk about your sex motivations and what experiment with his body, and in time he will orgasm.Health Question & Answer

give him anal, if he has an orgasm, then you have found the problem!Health Question & Answer

how is it the best he has ever had if he cant ***Health Question & Answer

He may not be able to ejaculate right now. He may feel strange being iwth a "different" woman after being with another woman for 15 years. And the more upset he gets about it, the harder it will be for him to come. Ask him if there is anything that he thinks might help him achieve ejaculation. If this doesn't go away, you two may need to go see a sex therapist or even just a regular therapist to get it figured out.
I suspect that intimacy has become and issue for him, since his previous relationship didn't have very much of it, from what you've said.
You may also want to consider doing some different things in bed, to see if a little variation might help him reach orgasm. Try using a vibrator, some ice, some warming lube, really anything you can think of- you might want to go to an adult toy store and see if there are games or other things that might help.Health Question & Answer

Can he orgasm by himself.? If so, then the problem is more mental than physical. Probably a trusting a woman thing but not knowing him, that's just a guess on my part.

Take the pressure off for a while. Do more things together (meals, watch movies, play board games etc etc) and do "stuff" but leave sex out of it for a while.

With time, his mental block will fall and he should be able to orgasm with you.Health Question & Answer



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