Has anyone here quit an addiction to masturbation?!


Question: Has anyone here quit an addiction to masturbation.?
Ive been doing it for like 4 years now..........at first i didnt know what i was doing.....then i did

THEN i realized that it was too late and i was addicted. now i want to quit, but everytime i try, i fail

But recently, Ive been stopping for like 3-4 weeks, but going back to it....(ie im "improving") what advice would you give.?

Thank you.!Health Question & Answer


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Quitting will not make you bad at sex. That person is wrong. However, masturbating can increase your stamina and decrease your sensitivity, resulting in a better sex for both partners.

I was "addicted" once.

It isn't really an addiction anyway. It is an obsession. I just quit by not thinking about it. Just get your mind off of it. The more you think of it as an addiction, the more anxious you're going to become about it. I tried for like a year to quit. I came up with plans and stuff to quit. They never worked. What did work was getting my mind off of it. There are a million things to think about, especially when you're young. You said you're religious. So pray about it. Pray about other things. Think about girls you like or music you like or whatever you think is cool. Answer people's questions on Y!A. Play video games. Get out of the rhythm of going to bed and immediately jacking it. Just keep trying and pray, and if you have faith, then you'll be ok and be able to control yourself.Health Question & Answer

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you CANNOT quit! Its human instinct. your body will tell itself to quit eventually. there really isnt an "addiction" to masterbating unless ur mentally disabled, why.? masterbating is all instinct. and religion is silent about masterbating. everyone masterbated alot at one point in their lives,including pastors and i can bet thousands that the pope did it. and masterbating is healthy,relieves stress,releases toxins in the prostate. and its a hell of alot safer than sex. Get real. your not "addicted"Health Question & Answer

i dont know but i would like to share with you my experice i dont know how often u do it but dont end up like me...it started nice and slow then started to take over everthing i now do it anywhere from 16-27 times a day....no joke the urge is so strong i cant even go out and have a good time because i have to maturbate......i dont have a job or go to school i dont kno wat ima do when that times come...but try to quit now because im done there is no hope for me......it just feel so amazing i wont be able to stopHealth Question & Answer

I am not a man but I can assure you that at least 95 percent of men masturbate, even when they are married.....So according to those masculine statistics, you are considered normal.......But please try to concentrate or focus on something else when the desire to masturbate come over you...I still think that it is wrong in God's eyes so try to find other entertainment to occupy our mind.....Health Question & Answer

well, surround urself with family an dfrieds, that way u cant do it in front of them, and do alternative activities when u think ur about to masturbate, go make a sandwich, pray, drink a glass of water, look at a picture of christ, think of your mom, think of god, keep a picture of jesus being tortured that way you remember no to sin....Health Question & Answer

I have this same exact problem man. Idk what it is, but it sucks Ik. I;ve been trying to quit for a while now..but its so hard to stop once you've done for a few years. You can talk to me more about it if u want, my email is matthew_heslor@msn.com. It doesn't make you horrible at sex...but the length of time you will last is shortened I read, because your not really..using it that much i guess you can say. XDHealth Question & Answer

We are all addicted to urinating but we still keep doing it.
It is similar to passing water, your body tells you it needs to be done.
Your body tell you that you need to masturbate, so you do it.Health Question & Answer

No. Sadly I'm still addicted. I've been meaning to quit for the last 36 years... to no avail... something always pops up and I lose concentration on my goal. I asked God for help and he sent me a virgin bride with an insatiable libido. That didn't help. I have developed a fetish you see. I dont think there's much hop efor you. You are born to be a sinner.Health Question & Answer

its normal
99 percent of men are wankers
the rest liars
keep bashing the bishop
never fails
unless youve got a floozie to do it for uHealth Question & Answer

avoid yourself in a place alone you can think a lot to do..
keep yourself busy .... controlHealth Question & Answer

It will make you horrible at sex if you quit, so keep polishing your trophyHealth Question & Answer

I have.
It's hard, but when you remove yourself from sexual stimuli for about two months, it just sort of disappears.Health Question & Answer

go to rehabHealth Question & Answer

there's nothing wrong with you.....as long as you are private about it.Health Question & Answer

the only real way to stop masturbating is to become sexually active, and doing so to stop masturbating is counter-intuitive and risky (and sinful, in the religious point of view, unless you are married to whom you are having intercourse).

Other than that, you'll grow out of it (I'm assuming you are a teen or pre-teen).

But, have you ever looked at the perks of masturbation.? Sure spreading one's seed is a vice in the bible, but morally it doesnt even come close to being as bad as having promiscuous sex with various partners. Besides, don't tell me you dont think the men at your church dont ever do it! As animals, we MUST reproduce - a call of the wild, if you will, and sex is the means to do it. Luckily, we humans are blessed with gift of being able to masturbate to dissuade ourselves from taking part in the high-risk - and to some morally wrong - behavior until we are absolutely ready for it.

I once had a girlfriend (whom I was not sexually involved with) challenge me to go a month without masturbating. I gave it a shot, and when I went a few weeks without any kind of ejaculation, I started having embarrassing nocturnal emissions (wet dreams). I'd rather rub an occasional one out into a sock than wake up in a pool of my own sticky semen. Then I would have to do laundry and wash my sheets - it was terrible.

So, the bad news: there's no way that I know of to break your addiction, especially in your teenage years when biologically you are in your prime time frame for reproduction and your sex drive is going nuts (har har excuse the pun). It's a phase that will last you a good 10 years or more, but by then hopefully you'll have found a significant other.Health Question & Answer



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