8 months pregnant caught mate cheating?!


Question: 8 months pregnant caught mate cheating.?
Hello everyone, I am 8 months pregnant due 4/28 and I just found out my mate of 1yr has been sleeping with another woman unprotected and also sleeping with me I am so devestated I am going to be tested for stds on friday however, now I dont want any parts of him, I am thinking about putting the baby up for adpotion I already have an 8yr old son by someone else, do you think this would be wrong.? I just cant stand to be bothered with a man who would put my health at risk!!!!!!!!!!!!!Health Question & Answer


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You do not need this man.He doesn't seem to care for you. This unborn child is the innocent one. You are his mother. Honestly, if you can't take care of this baby...maybe adoption is the best. Is your mate the father.? If he is you can get child support.(that is if you don't go back to him).But let me tell you something...your gonna have this baby weither he is there or not. Maybe some relatives or friends can be there with you. It is nice to have someone with you during that time, even if it is not the father. I really wish you the best of luck in what you decide, but you don't need this man if he is going to treat you like that.Think about this...what are you gonna tell your 8 yr old son if you decide to put your child up for adoption.? He is gonna want to know why you are giving up his brother/sister. It is not gonna be easy for you, and like I said...think hard about what you are gonna do with your baby. good-luck.Health Question & Answer

Your mate is a jerk. Thank goodness you can see this. What an azz. To cheat on a girlfriend is bad enough, but to cheat on her while she is carrying your child is beyond repair. Every thing you mentioned is true. Stay away from him. He doesn't have you, your child, or your unborn child's best interest at heart. Maybe you just need to see it in writing from someone else.

If you are considering the adoption option for your baby that is fine. Just make sure you consider the pros and cons of both allowing adoption and keeping the infant. also, make sure these are both long and short term pros and cons. Don't just think of the position you are in right now. Think of the future, also. Do not make a rash decision just because you are stressed, heart broke, or upset by your ex. Good luck with both child birth and your decision.Health Question & Answer

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The man's got to go. As far as the adoption, if you do it early on, there are TONS of good families out there that are looking to take care of a child- I think your baby would find a good home very soon if you opted for adoption. If you're doing that, start the process _now_, so the baby can have as much time with the new family during infancy as possible.Health Question & Answer

I agree with barney9651, there are TONS of families trying to find children. I myself had aa surrogate mother just miscarry my and my wifes baby. So Yeah, but anyway, Adoption is something you have to think through, cause you know theres always child support right.?Health Question & Answer

obviously your mate finds you atrocious.Health Question & Answer

Keep and love the baby....Dump the A-holeHealth Question & Answer



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