What can a guy do about his very ugly face? Please? Help?!


Question: What can a guy do about his very ugly face.? Please.? Help.?
I'm a 19 year old guy who has a very ugly face. It's terrible. I just don't look very natural at all. I have very reddish like skin that is covered with acne. My cheeks are very puffy whenever I smile, I hate that so much! What a turn off. The shape of my jaw is very bad. It makes me look like Frankenstein's monster. I don't like the look of my hair. It is naturally poofie and I just don't like it at all.
I really want to have a different face so that I might be able to actually talk to this VERY pretty girl at college. I have tried to talk to her on two separate occasions, but both times she ignored me. She in two of my classes and she gets along with everyone else just fine. But she won't talk to me! :( She is always talking to this one guy that is 100 times better looking than I am. I mean, this guy didn't even have to try she just came over on day and start to flirt with him. I have NEVER had this happen to me! She seems like such an awesome person! I only width I was better looking so I could get to know her.

So there anything I can do.?Health Question & Answer


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See.?! You've been belittling yourself! How could a lot of people accept you as you are and love you if you yourself don't like your own appearance. HAve a little self-confidence, dude! The face could deteriorate as ages come but not the virtues in the heart! There may be some comedians who are not good-looking but they even laugh at themselves! If you would like to get rich and go for a plastic surgery, it maybe good for some time but it's worthless!

You have not told us what are your cleaning habits. You could not be the ugliest person in the world because nobody is, and sensible people look on what's inside and not on the outside. It's inappropriate for everyone of us to make a mock judgment simply because of face value. (Better yet, $100 looks greater than $50 but it's made of the same paper!)

I must hate to criticize but as long as you criticize yourself, the more other people will criticize you. Just be as you are and don't mind what the lack of "cute face" could do to your life. We can't have all the things in the world, dude. Maybe you have that face but the best thing is what contains in the heart!Health Question & Answer

Hope that helped :)Health Question & Answer

- skin cleanser, toner and skin care cream
- find a gel to help tame your hair, just ask a stylist for a product they'd recommend
- Rhinoplasty if you're willing
- confidence!Health Question & Answer

Hey man, sounds like you've got a very bad self image of yourself. I'm sure you ain't that bad, you just need more confidence. If you're certain you have an ugly face you could always workout and improve your physique at least. Perhaps you are going about flirting the wrong way and that's why she is ignoring you. She might just be right up her own **** too and is shallow so don't worry about it. There will always be women who will be keen on you. All the best dude.Health Question & Answer

First of all, forget about her. Even if you were to "transform" she all ready has you on the ignore list.
Secondly, go to the doc and get something that will help clear up your acne, your face may be reddish from the irritation of your pimples or you could have a condition known as Roseacea, either way a doc can help!
As for your hair, skim through some magazines, it don't matter which magazines, and when you see a dude with hair you think would look good on you, rip the page out and head up to a hair stylist. Just make sure the hair in the pic at least some what resembles yours (type not style).
Lastly, start interacting with other girls you find interesting, if you stay hung up on the one who ignores you then that's all you'll ever get, ignored!Health Question & Answer

1. Money--> If you have a lot of money you can get plastic surgery and change what you don't like. You still might look a little weird but it'll be in a different way.
2. If you don't have money...get some. If you're rich you don't need to be really hot to get a girl. we're all shallow.
3. wash your face twice a day with FACEsoap and water. If you do this EVERYDAY it will make a difference and you wont' need ance medicine that makes your face peelHealth Question & Answer

Hey theres no such thing as an ugly face.

I had the same sort of problem when i was your age many years ago.

Its all in the mind.

Trust yourself and respect yourself

As women have told me looks arent everything its whats inside that counts.

Take me for example i wouldnt go out with a sexy gorgeous attractive girl as i know she would be a "heartbreaker" i have seen women flirting with men down the pub or nightclub and mainly just for one thing for sex or cos they look good not for intention of geniune frendship or relationship.

Go for an average looking girl and you be fine.

If this girl giving you a hard time dont bother with her if you do you may end up getting hurt!

Give up and leave her alone.

Trust me i have been there done that and got the t shirt!

I'm 36 so had a lot of ups and downs with women and i am not exactly attractive myself!

I'm in a new relationship with my new woman (after a divorce from marriage of my previous woman who i had been with for 9 year and married for 2 of them) and shes not drop dead gorgeous so she tells me but its the quiet ones who no-one fancies much who are the best.

In my opinion over gorgeous woman are trouble and end of hurting you just like me ex did to me.

Whatever you do good luckHealth Question & Answer

ExperienceHealth Question & Answer

Listen here buddy...that word "ugly" ain't, and should not be, in anybody's vocabulary. It only a perception you have of yourself. Here is what you do. Have a makeover. Treat your acne....there is treatments available. Go on a diet...and exercise (if you are perhaps obese) a nice slim figure and broad shoulders are attractive to women.I dress trendy but I do not go over board as I do not want to look like "mutton dressed like lamb". On the other hand at 19 you can dress as much as you like with the trend. And cultivate your personality...do not look too 'straight" that is unattractive to women even the "straight" ones...as the 'straight" ones want someone the opposite to them....and the "non-straight" ones do not want guys that look like the Pope! This aspect is important..extremely important in fact!. Talk to women...do not be shy....about anything as long as you talk to them..and get practice. Always be genuine..NEVER ..but NEVER SHOW OFF... But show some of your personality...I tell just be conscious that every word you say to a woman..she is clicking over at what sort of a guy you are. So for example...if you say to a woman..even in jest...'hey the neighbour's cat got in the way this morning..and I really gave a kick to get it out of there".....she will get the impression that you are cruel..and you have had it! So be smooth...but be charming. And bloody stop downgrading yourself....go and get 'em buddy!Health Question & Answer

Trust me you don't need to date someone that is vain and only goes out with you because of how you look. A truly good relationship is based on things like character and honesty. The things that really matter. We all get old and wrinkly if we live long enough so why bother marrying someone who is just eye candy it won't last forever anyway so go for things that do like character and intergrity.Health Question & Answer

common senseHealth Question & Answer

Look, if the girl ignores you when you talk to her then she probably isn't an "awesome" person. She might be stuck up or isn't willing to talk to people she considers "below her." For that reason she probably wouldn't be worth dating anyway, so I would advise you to find somebody else. That, or then she didn't hear you. Are you sure she knew you were talking to her.? Someone who doesn't acknowledge you because of how you look isn't someone worth being around...

By the way, you don't sound that bad. I like so called poofie hair on guys. If your skin is bad, you can go to the derm to get some help for it. It would probably take awhile before it fully heals but I can guarantee you no worthwhile girl is going to full out blow you off because of your skin. There are so many other attractive traits people have. Besides, at some point either sooner or later your skin will get better. As for your cheeks, how do you know others dont find that attractive.? We all have something we feel self concious about but for all we know, someone else might be attracted to us for that very reason!

I suggest you stop worrying about it so much :) You probably aren't half as bad as you think you are. Some girl will at some point like you, but maybe the reason you haven't found one so far is because you have so little confidence. Fake it till you make it so to say and I guarantee you will find someone worthwhile :)

Goodluck!Health Question & Answer



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