So guys answer me this - please?!
Question: So guys answer me this - please.?
So my husband and I have been together for 7 years and have 2 wonderful children together ages 5 and 2. Things have hit a downside and there is not much going on in our love life anymore. We both work and it seems he is always too tired after the kids are in bed to you know. Today he told me that it is me - how I am not romantic enough when it comes to sex, that I cannot just throw myself on him and expect for him to give me what I want. He said I need to have more fun and give more time. We have tried lots of things toys, sexy clothes and everything what more can I do to make him want me.? WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM YOU WIFE IN BED.?.? HONESTLY PLEASE HELP!
Please help me spice up my love life with my husband. It has been over a week since we did anything and this is just not working for me. What can I do to make him want me like he used to.?.?.?.?Health Question & Answer
Please help me spice up my love life with my husband. It has been over a week since we did anything and this is just not working for me. What can I do to make him want me like he used to.?.?.?.?Health Question & Answer
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Try sending him a sexy email or text message saying what you would like to do to him. Walk by him, run your hand across his junk, and just say "wow. Send the kids away for a weekend, when he gets home, sit him in the chair, put on his favorite movie, hand him a beer, drop down to your knees....you know the rest......then when he's done stand up and ask him what he wants for dinner. Try more foreplay in the sack, change positions, take things slow. The problem is when you have kids it's always a rush job, there's no romance in a quicky. And if all else fails. ASK HIM!!! Ask him what he wants. ask him his fantasies. If they are something you feel comfortable in fulfilling....do itHealth Question & Answer
you can't do anything to "make him" do anything... your gonna have to let him do what he needs to do to get over this problem...
just let him know that your there for him and want to get through this together...
btw,,, this is a question for "family and relationships"
good luckHealth Question & Answer
just let him know that your there for him and want to get through this together...
btw,,, this is a question for "family and relationships"
good luckHealth Question & Answer
What he means GIRL is that if you're not romantic enough, meaning you're not FREAKY enough. U know the kind that makes you lose your SELF-RESPECT. If that doesn't work HE'S simply not INTO U, WIFEY. That's all it means. If this isn't enough-MOVE on W/O HIM.Health Question & Answer
take off lunch and go visit him if u no what i mean....u said hes too tired at night maybe he'll be more energetic during the day.?Health Question & Answer
Well the thing is you had kids. That's where you went wrong if you are a sex addict. Now you got to wait 16+ years.Health Question & Answer
My gf and I are going through this too. Spice it up. Surpirse him in the shower etc etc.Health Question & Answer
There's a theory that some people need to have their physical needs met before they're emotionally intimate. And, that other people need to have their emotional needs met before they're physically intimate. John Kappas wrote a bit about this idea.
Your man may want his emotional needs met before he's ready to be physically intimate.
So, go for the romance, and be attentive to getting him past the exhaustion and into an emotionally fulfilled mood. Try it and see what happenes. Fulfill the emtions and then the physical intimacy will likely follow.Health Question & Answer
Your man may want his emotional needs met before he's ready to be physically intimate.
So, go for the romance, and be attentive to getting him past the exhaustion and into an emotionally fulfilled mood. Try it and see what happenes. Fulfill the emtions and then the physical intimacy will likely follow.Health Question & Answer