How do I convince my husband to restore his foreskin?!
Question: How do I convince my husband to restore his foreskin.?
My husband was circumcised as an infant, and I'd really like him to try restoration. I managed to convince him that getting our two boys cut was a bad idea (so we left them intact), but he's less receptive to me talking about restoration. I don't want to make him feel like he's a mutant or anything, but I'm frankly less attracted to his penis because it's not normal.
So what's the best way to talk to a guy about his penis.?Health Question & Answer
So what's the best way to talk to a guy about his penis.?Health Question & Answer
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I would say don't put pressure on him, it has to be his decision to do it, in his own time. Has he agreed to talk to you about it.? Bring it up and see what he says. Leave him some info and then drop it, let him look at it in his own time. A long time later, ask him if he's thought about it. If not, try and get him to look at some more information. Explain how you love his penis as it is, but foreskin restoration would be something important for you that you would like him to at least consider. also check out forums on the web with guys restoring, and their partners, and ask them about this, some of them might have been reluctant at first. But bottom line is it's his penis and his choice, I know it affects you, but he has a right to not choose it, so don't press the issue otherwise he will not be happy and will feel like you don't love him as is. Good luck.
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I'm sorry Kathi but you married him "as is". It isn't as if he did it after you were married against your wishes, if he loves you and your children and is a good husband, be happy and count yourself a very fortunate woman. Be happy and content with him and your life.
And his penis is normal, like the other man said, how would you feel if your husband said something to you about a part of your body needing surgery.? It would probably make you feel bad.
I would love my husband no matter what, even if he had an accident and lost any part of his body it wouldn't make me love him or be less attracted to him, he is my mate and my most precious person, unconditionally.
For the sake of your marriage let this idea of yours go.Health Question & Answer
And his penis is normal, like the other man said, how would you feel if your husband said something to you about a part of your body needing surgery.? It would probably make you feel bad.
I would love my husband no matter what, even if he had an accident and lost any part of his body it wouldn't make me love him or be less attracted to him, he is my mate and my most precious person, unconditionally.
For the sake of your marriage let this idea of yours go.Health Question & Answer
You might just consider minding your own business and not belittling your husband by inferring you think he is inadequate or strange. Being circumcised was not his decision, and how he appears is no fault of his own. But if you have had him as a husband and lover for this long, why in the world would you bring such an idea up unless you have other issues and are just using this to create discontent in your marriage. His penis, his business, not yours even as your wife.Health Question & Answer
How could you want him to do this.? It must be purely cosmetic and for only your enjoyment. Plus, it sounds more painful than removing!
How would you respond if he asked you to be circumcised! I hope you wouldn't consider it. I hope he won't do it either
You need to love him for who he is and not what his penis looks like, or for a decision his parents madeHealth Question & Answer
How would you respond if he asked you to be circumcised! I hope you wouldn't consider it. I hope he won't do it either
You need to love him for who he is and not what his penis looks like, or for a decision his parents madeHealth Question & Answer
You need to accept him as he is. Imagine how you would feel if he said he thought you should have breast implants because "frankly" he isn't attracted to your breasts the way they look currently. You have probably really hurt his feelings and seriously reduced his self-esteem.Health Question & Answer
I had no idea you can restore them.
and to that RANDY MOSS dude... men who are uncircumcised are NOT full of diseases unless they don't shower a lot. Don't be ignorant.Health Question & Answer
and to that RANDY MOSS dude... men who are uncircumcised are NOT full of diseases unless they don't shower a lot. Don't be ignorant.Health Question & Answer
Ouch.....no wonder he doesn't want to - yeah...ouchHealth Question & Answer
Aaaaah foreskin restoration is not like going to the store and picking up a carton of milk. Apparently you're the one that needs convincing about that procedure. It's not a Routine procedure. It's not a Proven System that works. There are various techniques and like most penile enlargment advertisments are money scams.
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The WAY to convince him would be to SHOW and Scientifically PROVE to him that Foreskin Restoration can be done Successfully(no side effects, no future harm). And when you find it share it with me, cause I've been looking and NOT finding a Successful program.
the closest I've come is from Vacuum pumping and the extra skin from the pumping. However overpumping has its side effects, broken vessels and torn ligament in the penile shaft.
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The WAY to convince him would be to SHOW and Scientifically PROVE to him that Foreskin Restoration can be done Successfully(no side effects, no future harm). And when you find it share it with me, cause I've been looking and NOT finding a Successful program.
the closest I've come is from Vacuum pumping and the extra skin from the pumping. However overpumping has its side effects, broken vessels and torn ligament in the penile shaft.
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That's a tough one. You know what guys are like about their willy's :-)
I don't know- perhaps ask if he's ever wondered what it would be like to have one & see how he feels. I guess you could also buy the apparatus they use & introduce it as a toy in the bedroom.?
I suppose in the end it's his penis, so if he's not interested there's probably not much you can do to change his mind.
I'm glad you had the sense to convince him to leave your sons intact.
I think it's a form of child abuse personally.
There's a lot of myths about foreskins, so perhaps you could help educate him better, and he might be more open to the idea.?
There's a couple small plastic/rubber gadgets you can get that go over the penis, and kind of pulls the skin forward on the shaft, but it's a very slow process apparently.
A penis pump wouldn't be useful in a restoration I don't think, unless he walked around with it attached 24/7 lol.
Edit: LOL. It's pretty easy to see which guys are circumcised.
I've only spoken to a few guys that have done or a doing a restoration, and none of them said there was ANY pain involved.
And for the ignorant people out there... it only harbours bacteria etc IF YOU DON"T WASH IT PROPERLY EVERY DAY. Treat it like a peatree (.?) dish, & of course it with turn green & furry :)Health Question & Answer
I don't know- perhaps ask if he's ever wondered what it would be like to have one & see how he feels. I guess you could also buy the apparatus they use & introduce it as a toy in the bedroom.?
I suppose in the end it's his penis, so if he's not interested there's probably not much you can do to change his mind.
I'm glad you had the sense to convince him to leave your sons intact.
I think it's a form of child abuse personally.
There's a lot of myths about foreskins, so perhaps you could help educate him better, and he might be more open to the idea.?
There's a couple small plastic/rubber gadgets you can get that go over the penis, and kind of pulls the skin forward on the shaft, but it's a very slow process apparently.
A penis pump wouldn't be useful in a restoration I don't think, unless he walked around with it attached 24/7 lol.
Edit: LOL. It's pretty easy to see which guys are circumcised.
I've only spoken to a few guys that have done or a doing a restoration, and none of them said there was ANY pain involved.
And for the ignorant people out there... it only harbours bacteria etc IF YOU DON"T WASH IT PROPERLY EVERY DAY. Treat it like a peatree (.?) dish, & of course it with turn green & furry :)Health Question & Answer
I don't know why you would want to put your husband through this. To get your facts straight circumcision is not only a cosmetic procedure, its done to reduce the risk of infection to men because the foreskin is a moist wet environment for bacteria to grow, and does not have an impact on sexual performance. It might in your situation because your frankly less attracted to his. I really don't know why you would want to put him through the pain (YES IT IS PAINFUL) for something so minimal.Health Question & Answer
UR LUCKY HES CIRCUMSIZED , HE AINT FULL OF DISEASESHealth Question & Answer