Easy TeN poInTs!!Come and get it!?!
Question: Easy TeN poInTs!!Come and get it!.?
My bf was into pornography(he would use it to masturbate)and I just found out about it yesterday.I feel like my body isn't good enough for him and worthless.He said that he did it because we don't get to spend that much time together and all so he resorts to that..especially when I went away to peru over the summer.He already asked for forgivenes and said that he felt VERY guilty about it.I already forgave him but I don't know how I should feel or react to this..How would you feel and react.?What should I do.?Health Question & Answer
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Ok. I know it's easy for me to say stuck behind a computer screen while your living it but I personally think you should forgive him - no, not only forgive him but not care!
Its seems awful but the reason he has porno is not a disrespect to you but because he is a typical male. He needs more - he's greedy. If he wasn't satisfied with you he would dump you and move on but there is a reason he's with you - if he had cheated it's a different thing (depending on circumstance) but he hasn't.
Don't feel worthless most of the pain people feel to there partners after finding out about this sort of thing is actually not pain to there partners but pain because they compare themselves and are jealous - but remember who you are felling jealous of - think about it - you REALLY want to be like her.?.?.? Your a better person! Remember masturbating is healthy for men and also means there is less work for you when you don't feel like it.
If he's a good guy and still treating you OK and not disregarding your needs because he is fulfilled there is no reason for you to be upset about this. Just smile and say it's OK because seriously - it is.
Just email for more advice. :)Health Question & Answer
Its seems awful but the reason he has porno is not a disrespect to you but because he is a typical male. He needs more - he's greedy. If he wasn't satisfied with you he would dump you and move on but there is a reason he's with you - if he had cheated it's a different thing (depending on circumstance) but he hasn't.
Don't feel worthless most of the pain people feel to there partners after finding out about this sort of thing is actually not pain to there partners but pain because they compare themselves and are jealous - but remember who you are felling jealous of - think about it - you REALLY want to be like her.?.?.? Your a better person! Remember masturbating is healthy for men and also means there is less work for you when you don't feel like it.
If he's a good guy and still treating you OK and not disregarding your needs because he is fulfilled there is no reason for you to be upset about this. Just smile and say it's OK because seriously - it is.
Just email for more advice. :)Health Question & Answer
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. I seriously doubt he prefers the porn over you. Guys typically have a little higher sex drive than girls do. (not always, but usually). I'm sure he would rather be with you 10 times a day, but the porn is there to fill in the gaps when he can't be with you. I would guess that masturbating to the porn is purely a physical release, while having sex with you is emotionally AND physically rewarding. As long as he doesn't become obsessed with the porn and stop giving you what you need, I wouldn't worry about it.Health Question & Answer
well you should look at the bright side he didn't cheat on you did he yes i know you are going to feel a lil less atractive then the porn stars but just think of all the make up they put on and ect.... you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel i talked to my BF about it and i can to the conclusion that i dont want him watching asian porn ...why well just cause i hate asian porn
maybe you and him can make one together and he can watch it when your ways!.? :) Health Question & Answer
maybe you and him can make one together and he can watch it when your ways!.? :) Health Question & Answer
Same thing happened to me, He felt guilty, and of course, us being women, we feel Betrayed!
I just told him that if he felt like he needed that to satisfy him, then we needed to go our separate ways...
I'm just not into PORN though, whereas you have some women, who can get into that mess with their bf!
Either JOIN him, if that makes you feel better, or make sure he knows his boundaries with you if it's hurting you......
You have to make the RIGHT choices for YOUR life, the less Stress you have, the better off you'll be!
Good LucK!Health Question & Answer
I just told him that if he felt like he needed that to satisfy him, then we needed to go our separate ways...
I'm just not into PORN though, whereas you have some women, who can get into that mess with their bf!
Either JOIN him, if that makes you feel better, or make sure he knows his boundaries with you if it's hurting you......
You have to make the RIGHT choices for YOUR life, the less Stress you have, the better off you'll be!
Good LucK!Health Question & Answer
I know how you feel. I've had this problem with my fiance a few times. It's not because you are unattractive. Men are very visual people, and young men are VERY horny. It's normal for them to look at it. Maybe you can watch it with him.? Just explain how it upsets you and you wish he wouldn't do it anymore. Hopefully he will stop. good luck!Health Question & Answer
I Know How Yhuu feel as long as hes not refusing sex and watchng the porn instead then your fine
my boyfriend watches porn all the time
and would yhuu rather him be watching porn then going out and getting another woman why yhuu went .?
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hope i helped
love ghayhead
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my boyfriend watches porn all the time
and would yhuu rather him be watching porn then going out and getting another woman why yhuu went .?
x
hope i helped
love ghayhead
xxHealth Question & Answer
Leave him be...if he prefers the porn let him prefer it ;D
okok Tell him how you feel it should be much better =)
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okok Tell him how you feel it should be much better =)
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umm thanks for the free pointsHealth Question & Answer
hes just plain stupid id pic my lady before pornHealth Question & Answer