How can I get my boyfriend who has Erectile Dysfunction, to want more sex with me?!
Question: How can I get my boyfriend who has Erectile Dysfunction, to want more sex with me.?
We have been going very steady for a year now and we have sex maybe twice a week. The only time we really ever have sex is when he wants it. To me that's just not enough. He has E.D so I know he gets nervous sometimes about having sex. I never push him or make him feel bad about his problem. For some reason this problem is just not going away. What can I do to make him feel more comfortable and want to have sex more.?Health Question & Answer
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Males are very fragile about their penis and how they can satisfy a female. One really big thing you can do for him is to lie a little.
It'll take some effort on your part to fondle him when he's ready for sex or in a good mood and accepting of it. Do some gentle oral on him and just play around with it gently. Now comes the lie. Tell him you can feel its different to usual. Suggest it's a bit harder somehow; it feels nicer to you when its like this. If he wants to have sex tell him you want to play/suck it a while longer because you want to enjoy it a while longer. Even if he says he doesn't believe you or says he can't see any difference just say you know what you know and you like it. If you show more interest in his penis this way he'll take it on board and feel much more adequate and confident. Time will do the rest. Above all sound positive and confident when you lie and he'll follow your lead because deep down he really wants too. A bit more moaning or positive feedback about the difference during sex of any type will help to reinforce he's able to give you pleasure and the pressure will be off him a bit more each time. You have to start off in a subtle offhand surprised manner and build on that slowly. Be convincing. Health Question & Answer
It'll take some effort on your part to fondle him when he's ready for sex or in a good mood and accepting of it. Do some gentle oral on him and just play around with it gently. Now comes the lie. Tell him you can feel its different to usual. Suggest it's a bit harder somehow; it feels nicer to you when its like this. If he wants to have sex tell him you want to play/suck it a while longer because you want to enjoy it a while longer. Even if he says he doesn't believe you or says he can't see any difference just say you know what you know and you like it. If you show more interest in his penis this way he'll take it on board and feel much more adequate and confident. Time will do the rest. Above all sound positive and confident when you lie and he'll follow your lead because deep down he really wants too. A bit more moaning or positive feedback about the difference during sex of any type will help to reinforce he's able to give you pleasure and the pressure will be off him a bit more each time. You have to start off in a subtle offhand surprised manner and build on that slowly. Be convincing. Health Question & Answer
ED.? What the hell, how old is he.? He needs to go to the doctor. If he can do it twice a week without any problem, he is just lazy, and you need to either deal with it, or break up with him. Believe me, you will NOT want him to do it when only you want it. It will suck, and he might return the favor. And having sex when YOU don't feel like it is horrible.
And a note regarding the above comments; Alcohol does NOT help ED. hahaha.Health Question & Answer
And a note regarding the above comments; Alcohol does NOT help ED. hahaha.Health Question & Answer
it all depends on his comfort. you may just want to tell him that you don't care that he has E.D. either way you can get some of the same feelings from foreplay as you do sex. try experimenting with that, that way there the both of you get in the mood and if he doesn't want sex he doesn't have to have it but you still get pleasure.Health Question & Answer
Find out if he has any fantasies and fulfill the fantasy. Maybe he likes school girl outfits. Let him spank your @$$ while doing you from behind. Or let him pull on your hair while you lean on a dresser as he does you from behind. Maybe he wants to be dominated I don't know. You gotta find out what turns him on!!!Health Question & Answer
Talk with him, let him know that it is important to u. Then try doing sexy things like wear costumes and things. Maybe have romantic dinners.Health Question & Answer
LET DRINK UNTILL HE GETS drunk and maybe ull have ur chance. Or make him see sexy u r..Get LingereHealth Question & Answer
wow any guy would want to be your girlfriend well what you could do is get him drunk Health Question & Answer
just ask himHealth Question & Answer
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