I really need help, ASAP!!?!


Question: I really need help, ASAP!!.?
Well, i know this is a the wrong section, but i dont know where else to put this.

I had a History trip, and took some alcohol, i got caught though, however one of the bottles was my friends, but i said ill take the blame for him.

Now, the school phoned my parents, and now im in serious trouble, i am gonna tell my friend i cant take the blame for him.

I told my dad, that all the bottles were my friends, because if he found out that any were mines, he would kill me instantly.

On Thursday i have a meeting with the school about this, i might get suspended, but since this is my first time in real trouble, i get A's and B's, and i am polite to teachers, it might not be as bad.

I am going to tell my dad they were mine before Thursday, probably 2morrow after he comes home from work, hes going to ask, where did you get the alcohol from...I took it from his bottles but i cant tell him that because he is against stealing and i will probably get kicked out the house for sure if i tell him that..... Need your help guys!!!

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Sounds to me like you are just a decent young guy who has made a couple of mistakes
Come clean about all your issues and apologise for being stupid . Use your good record to highlight that this has been a one off and you have leaned your lesson
Sure your dad and the teachers will be mad at you , but honesty is the best way to try and make this error of judgement be pardoned by them
I certainly doubt you will be kicked out of the house , you may get kept indoors for a week or so and asked to do some penitence like some chores . Just accept the punishment with good grace and move on , but above all be honest with everyone Health Question & Answer

Tell your dad that it was your friends and you carried it because he couldn't and he didn't tell you why. You did a less than Intelligent thing and now you are willing to take full responsibility for your actions.when he asks who the friend is, tell him you can't tell. Tell him It's your responsibility because you did the deed so you will take full responsibility. It's time to be a man. This advice does not apply in every situation, but it does in this one. Be honest. Health Question & Answer

Firstly nobody is going to kill you. And tell the truth. If you start lying you just get deeper into it. Admit you did wrong and say you are sorry and did not mean to do any harm. We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect. Not even your Dad or your teachers. Show remorse and accept your punishment. You proberly just get a warning. And remember in a few weeks, all will be forgotten and people will talk about someone else. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

Speak to your friends ASAP tell them i cant take the blame, Its then up to them what they do, they wouldn't be as in trouble if they confessed themselves, but if they don't confess, you tell the teachers.Health Question & Answer

be honest all round. Tell the truth to your dad about the bottles every thing. You will always have this niggle other wise, be grown up and stand tall and admit to the error of your ways, and apologise profusely. Health Question & Answer

okay you're probably under age and where would you have gotten the alcohol.? Seems like the evidence will point to your friend if his parents are the ones that drink that alcohol in question.

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You shouldn't be responsible of your friend's actions.Health Question & Answer

WOW!!!

How old are you now or what grade are you in.?

Um......I'd fess up.Health Question & Answer

look dude say that u payed some hitch hiker to buy u the booze !!!Health Question & Answer

The best thing to do is tell the total truth. They will probably be more mad that you lied, but just say you were scared about what they would say because you knew you had made a mistake. Your dad will probably be mad at first and might ground you for a bit, but deep down he will be glad you told him the truth. Remember that he was young once and probably messed up a few times!! It is his duty as a parent to be angry and make you understand what you did was wrong, but he still loves you and soon enough it will all be in the past. I did some very similar things a few years ago when i was younger...and at the time when my dad found out and got mad it felt like the end of the world! but be brave, own up, learn from it and then forget it ever happened.Health Question & Answer

You need to come clean with everyone. Is it worth dropping your friend in it.? You won't get less of a punishment for it, so I don't think it is.
It really won't be that bad. You might get suspended for a couple of days but that's it. also, your Dad won't be half as bad as you think he'll be. I'm sure (even if he doesn't tell you this) that he will be glad that you have told the truth... in the end! I really doubt that he'll kick you out. I disappointed my Dad horrendously a few times during my teenage years, and he's always forgiven me in the end. It's normal teenage behaviour to do daft things like that!
Grit your teeth and get on with it, the lies will come out in the end anyway!
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he probably knows his booze is missing a few bottles and is waiting for you to own up.i am a mum and would be more annoyed if i got to school and was made to look like a fool in front of the teacher that my kid stole and lied.tell your parents you thought it would be cool to try to drink some alcohol as your parents look as if they have a good time when they drink it(you would appear innocent and shift the guilt to them lol).they probably arent as much mad that you took the stuff(we parents act annoyed when really we are bothered that we look bad in front of other adults/teachers).looking at your grades and attitude you are hardly a troublesome child and i doubt that your parents would throw you out even if they threatened it.i recently found my kid was having sex we expect these things and need time to come to terms with them.your dad will cool down quicker once he knows the full truth with no more changes of story or lies coming out along the way.school wont expell you.... just grovelHealth Question & Answer



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