I don't *** from sex or blowjobs. How do I fix this?!
Question: I don't *** from sex or blowjobs. How do I fix this.?
I'm a male in his early twenties with a steady girlfriend. We have been dating for almost 14 months now and so far I was only able to finish once. I've tried laying off the masterbation and that seems to help a bit. Our relationship is a bit long-distance at the moment so laying off of it is hard. Recently she was able to get me off from handjobs but thats it, and that can still be "touch-and-go." The main issue is that I have to stop during sex because, no matter how soft or slow I try to go after 30 minutes she gets a bit sore and I have to stop to be finished off by hand. The one time I did finish from intercourse it was amazing and would love to feel that again.Health Question & Answer
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Your probably inhibited by being observed while your getting aroused. Your self-consciousness is blocking your orgasm. The first time, the novelty of the situation overwhelmed that, but now the self-awareness is more apparent.
I was going to suggest gradual desensitization, but it seems like you've already gone as far as that could take you, since you can get off in your girl's hand. So I suggest that you see a sex therapist or ask your health professional for a referral. Therapists have a number of exercises to deal with these problems, and they're also skilled at figuring out the root causes. Go soon; sexual problems are one of the big relationship killers, but there's no reason it should be.Health Question & Answer
I was going to suggest gradual desensitization, but it seems like you've already gone as far as that could take you, since you can get off in your girl's hand. So I suggest that you see a sex therapist or ask your health professional for a referral. Therapists have a number of exercises to deal with these problems, and they're also skilled at figuring out the root causes. Go soon; sexual problems are one of the big relationship killers, but there's no reason it should be.Health Question & Answer
Damage from circumcision, which destroys sexual sensitivity did the same thing to me.
I am restoring my foreskin, and with it my sexual sensitivity and the intensity of my orgasms have also increased.
The new foreskin adds a dimension of sensitivity that I never knew--the inner foreskin becomes part of the shaft when retracted, and it highly sensitive.
Foreskin restoration isn't easy nor quick, it takes a couple of years to complete, but the results are well worth it--a new penis and a new sex life.Health Question & Answer
I am restoring my foreskin, and with it my sexual sensitivity and the intensity of my orgasms have also increased.
The new foreskin adds a dimension of sensitivity that I never knew--the inner foreskin becomes part of the shaft when retracted, and it highly sensitive.
Foreskin restoration isn't easy nor quick, it takes a couple of years to complete, but the results are well worth it--a new penis and a new sex life.Health Question & Answer
You really need to stop cumming with your hand, then your penis will re-sensitize itslef to the va-ga-ga.
If you can't stop jerking, you should try just to stroke as lightly as you can. Health Question & Answer
If you can't stop jerking, you should try just to stroke as lightly as you can. Health Question & Answer
Use a good lube like K-Y. There are also some good condoms out there. If you are having trouble keeping erect, you may try some Cialis or Viagra. And of course, relax and enjoy yourself.Health Question & Answer
your nervous, you need to calm down and relax and everything will be fineHealth Question & Answer
You jack off too much. Causing lack of "***".Health Question & Answer
You sound tense. Relax. Is birth/disease prevention in place.?Health Question & Answer
Sounds like it could be MS.Health Question & Answer