He told me he masturbates!?!


Question: He told me he masturbates!.?
I know that there is nothing wrong with masturbating (even for 14 year olds) But did my best guy friend have to tell me.?! I'm not put off by it, just shocked that he would tell me! What's going on.?

Is it something to do with his knowing that I like him.?Health Question & Answer


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Let it go as common knowledge, if it bothers you that bad then ask why he would even mention it to you. Or have a come back of the fact that you do too...Health Question & Answer

maybe he feels guilty about it and needs someone to talk to and if your his girl best friend then he feels most comfortable talkin about it to you because all the guys his age wont say anything about it except tell him porn sites and how to make it feel better so if i were you i would just tell him that its normal but will affect him later in life if he does it too much a little bit at that age is healthy, otherwise he would be just like a german shepard, humping the fire hydrant outside the city hall. and also maybe he was trying to tell you something else, like that he wants to date you and is telling you so that he feels there is nothing left unsaid between the two of you, guys are wierd like thatHealth Question & Answer

He might've told you because he feels kind of guilty about it and needs someone to confide in. If you all are best friends, then you're probably a trustworthy person whom he can trust to keep something like that and your liking him might even enhance this trust. If it's really bothering you, just ask him why he shared it with you and he'll probably tell you. Hope this helps.Health Question & Answer

All young guys like to discuss things like this , admittedly usually with a group of other guys
But they will push boundaries to see haw far they can , and this is why he will be telling you .
My guess is that he more than like you and may be looking to take your relationship a bit closer
At some stage later in life you will find a partner and be involved in these acts with him , so although things might seem shocking now , you might just change your opinion when you are older Health Question & Answer

It means he is confident of your friendship, and wants to share this intimate information with you. Take it as a compliment, and tell him you're pleased that he does (it's normal, and very good for general health). If you masturbate too, share that with him :-)Health Question & Answer

Well if he just said it out of nowhere, yeah its a little weird an inappropriate. Or maybe since he's a good friend of yours. Maybe he feels embarrassed about it and needed someone close to him to talk about it to.Health Question & Answer

it really depends on the context: how he told you. If he just mentioned it during conversation as a side thing, it's absolutely nothing, he's just open about it.Health Question & Answer

Yeah, don't hack it. 95% of people masturbate and the other 5% are liars. Still, who want so know.? I would say his problem is his conversation rather than his self-abuse.? Health Question & Answer

He's probably excited about his new-found hobby. He shouldn't have discussed this with you, but just try to overlook it since he did.Health Question & Answer

Well you should in a way be flattered that he trusts you enough with this. But as Billy Connolly once said, 10% of men masturbate, the other 90% are liars!Health Question & Answer

He wants to connect sexually with you and the only frame of reference he has is masturbation.Health Question & Answer

Yeah, guys are like that. Its hilarious the things that they'll tell a girl who they're not trying to get with.Health Question & Answer

All guys masturbateHealth Question & Answer

Other than being tacky, this surprises you how.?Health Question & Answer

every boy doesHealth Question & Answer

Men like talking about that kind of thing...Health Question & Answer

Thats just guys, don't read into it too much!Health Question & Answer

You are cause the way you say thingsHealth Question & Answer

idk ask himHealth Question & Answer



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