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Question: I'm interested in the male perspective only, please.?
What makes some men completely homophobic.? Would you describe someone who is so against homosexuality that they get really really angry just discussing it as being homophobic.? If not, how would you categorize this behavior.?Health Question & Answer


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it just seems Io easy to label people homophobic. i work at a fast food diner and there are three gay guys who also work there. while i don't agree with and don't understand about their lifestyle, i'm at least social, we talk about general stuff, i don't hang out with them, we don't have similar interests.

it might just be more of an issue about being intolerant of others who are not like you. some people hate others who have different colored skin, practice different religious views, or come from other parts of the country. maybe it really is self hating to allow oneself to hate others for being different than we are. just my opinionHealth Question & Answer

This is an interesting question. I don't buy the answer of them being unsure of their sexual preference because that simply can't be the case for all homophobics. In all reality, I think the exact opposite might be the actual truth. Since they simply can not understand homosexuality, they choose to hate it and think of it as some sort of disease. Let me know if you ever do find the answer!

I did just have an idea, though. Although I don't think of myself as homophobic, I will admit that some gays do upset me only because they do fall under some of the bad stereotypes. For example, this one person I know seriously like prances around. Therefore, I think his behavior almost categories all men as being creatures that prance. Obviously, though, that isn't the truth. Health Question & Answer

Our society as a whole.

From birth boys were separated by parents from the girls, and our society teaches about the things they should do and should not, and the media re-enforces it with images and anti-homosexuality propagandas which is largely approved by the general society. Thus if a boy was to conform with the larger part of this society, he must hate on the gay guys for his own good and survival in this society.

Homosexuality on the other hand is a learnt behavior, but sexuality in it's concept is applied for all living beings on the planet. All humans are sexual creatures that lusts for all beings, some society teaches it is right for a man to engage in sexual act with a women, and some society does not care about it that much.

Using some reverse psychology here, what if a society teaches a child from birth that it is right to have sex with an animal, Would the child do it.? The answer is Yes, most definately, the moral of this imaginary society tells the child it is correct to have sex with animals. In our society, the hinted moral of the story is...it is not right to have sex with other men.Health Question & Answer

It's hard to generalize. Some guy may have been abused as a child. Some guy may be afraid of their own personal feelings towards homosexuality, maybe having had an experience at one time or another & doesn't want to be stereiotyped as gay. Some guy may have had a sexual experience & enjoyed it at the time but no longer feels that way.Health Question & Answer

well basicly... if some 1 says im gay i just kall um gay lol but if some guy starts hitting on me i get pissed cuz that fuking disgusting lol. its not ment to b done between 2 dudes so if u ask ur boyfriend or what ever somthing about that dont b suprised if he starts cursing. its just way grossHealth Question & Answer

Closeted self hating, maybe.

There is a negative physiological reaction in straight men's brains when they're shown pictures of other naked males.Health Question & Answer

some people think that the person is insecure about their own sexuality or something like that

for me i just think it is so ****ing disgusting and it is not rightHealth Question & Answer

i would categorize it as insecurity about his own sexual preferenceHealth Question & Answer

Closet homophobiaHealth Question & Answer



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