Help with College BF!?!
Question: Help with College BF!.?
Ok guys I have been with my BF Garrett for 4 months now. He is in college and I am in my junior year of high school. we do not see each other every day because he goes to school 3 to 4 hours away that where I go to school but I got up there every weekend. Well me and hem decided it would be best if we where to wait till we had been going out for 6 months before having sex. But a fu week ago I was raped and that is when he became mad at me. I tried to talk to hem but he refused so tell me anything and tried to say that he did not care. I talked to some of his friends and they said that he had told them that he was mad because I had had sex with someone els, thinking that it was my idea and I was not rape. well I had to do some digging but I found out that in high school he was called the sex machine and his friends said that it was a big dill for hem to go without for so long. he has refuses to answer my text and calls and told me not to go up to his place anymore .
What do I need to say or do to make things right.?
I mean its not my falt and i do not think i should be blamed for it, should i.? Help!
Thanks,
@nn@
also if you wher in his positon would you act this way.? is this the normal male reaction.?Health Question & Answer
What do I need to say or do to make things right.?
I mean its not my falt and i do not think i should be blamed for it, should i.? Help!
Thanks,
@nn@
also if you wher in his positon would you act this way.? is this the normal male reaction.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
i'm sorry to hear you were raped anna. its not your fault, dont even think it is. i think you should just leave him alone for a while, and let things happen however they do. he shouldnt blame you. i would not act the same way he did and no, its not the natural male reaction to the best of my knowledge. have you reported this rape to the police.? if you havent, i suggest VERY strongly that you do.Health Question & Answer
forget about this loser and find someone better, you'll have a better time with someone your own age.
and no thats definately not normal, if that happened to my gf i'd be more worried about killing the SOB that did it than that she had intercourse with someone else.
Just move on with your life...
Good luck,
-kippHealth Question & Answer
and no thats definately not normal, if that happened to my gf i'd be more worried about killing the SOB that did it than that she had intercourse with someone else.
Just move on with your life...
Good luck,
-kippHealth Question & Answer
you deserve alot better>>>thats all i can say
sorry to hear you got rape :(Health Question & Answer
sorry to hear you got rape :(Health Question & Answer
1st of all, you deserve better than him, because you got rapped ans he didn'tt care, all he cared about was that you had intercourse with someone else, and he didnt see the point of you forced to do it
2nd of all of course it isn't your fault, he's the douche bag, if he really love you, he wouldn't care what his friends says, and comforts you
3rd of all, if i were him i would be pissed off at the asshole that raped you, and report him and try to get him in jail and all of that
4th of all, screw him Anna, you need someone better, you deserve someone better, someone that truly care about you Health Question & Answer
2nd of all of course it isn't your fault, he's the douche bag, if he really love you, he wouldn't care what his friends says, and comforts you
3rd of all, if i were him i would be pissed off at the asshole that raped you, and report him and try to get him in jail and all of that
4th of all, screw him Anna, you need someone better, you deserve someone better, someone that truly care about you Health Question & Answer