Why does he hold my head when im giving him a bj?!
Question: Why does he hold my head when im giving him a bj.?
my boyfriend will push my head towards the base of his penis or hold my head in place as he thrusts (Sorry to be graphic!). Ive told him kindly (not during the act) that it sometimes makes me feel uncomfortable, but it seems like hell do it sometimes without any thought, like an innate reaction.
Ladies. Gents. Is it normal for a guy to hold her head while shes giving him head.? I feel like its a control thing and I do not find it endearing.
Thanks!
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Ladies. Gents. Is it normal for a guy to hold her head while shes giving him head.? I feel like its a control thing and I do not find it endearing.
Thanks!
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Answers:
I like to hold the girls head and play with her hair. It's fun and exciting. As for thrusting during a bj, he is doing it because it feels good. However, very few girls have learned how to do deep throat (where you control your gag reflex) and he shouldn't be doing it if you told him not too. Whenever one person goes down on another, there's is always some overture of power control- it's natural and can be a lot of fun. I doubt he thinks less of you for it although I see how you may find it less endearing.
Set boundaries and let him know what you feel comfortable with but make sure you keep an open mind when it comes to various sex acts.Health Question & Answer
Set boundaries and let him know what you feel comfortable with but make sure you keep an open mind when it comes to various sex acts.Health Question & Answer
He doesn't show much respect toward you, especially if he won't stop after you asked. If he won't stop doing that even if you insist to, he might not be the great guy you thought he was.
I understand it might be painful if you truly love him, but to me, it's a controlling behaviour, and over time, this relationship could only hurt you even more.
As for holding the head, I would only do it to play with her hair, nothing forceful. He should show more respect toward you.Health Question & Answer
I understand it might be painful if you truly love him, but to me, it's a controlling behaviour, and over time, this relationship could only hurt you even more.
As for holding the head, I would only do it to play with her hair, nothing forceful. He should show more respect toward you.Health Question & Answer
Because it gives him more control, and the deeper you go the better it feels. Many women in porn have trained themselves to do "deep throat", and many men who witness this expect it from any woman who performs oral sex on them, even though most women outside of the professional sex industry are neither trained nor inclined to do it.
Since we guys are rather dense, you'll have to have a serious heart-to-heart with him regarding this rather delicate subject. Explain to him that if he continues to force the issue, he'll wind up with 1) puke on his pecker, or 2) no oral sex at all. He has to learn to be grateful for what he gets, as well as learning how to reciprocate.Health Question & Answer
Since we guys are rather dense, you'll have to have a serious heart-to-heart with him regarding this rather delicate subject. Explain to him that if he continues to force the issue, he'll wind up with 1) puke on his pecker, or 2) no oral sex at all. He has to learn to be grateful for what he gets, as well as learning how to reciprocate.Health Question & Answer
Because it's easier than trying to talk you ladies through what exactly works for us. Sometimes the angle can be a bit off or the speed is wrong so, basically it IS a control thing but it's also a cowardly act because we are too afraid to tell you exactly how we like it.Health Question & Answer
All you can do is tell him not to do it! If you are not comfortable with it you have every right to ask it to stop. I never hold the girl's head as my experience has been they never need any guidance from me. I have never come across a woman who gives a bad BJ. But I could be just unusual.Health Question & Answer
because he's a selfish tw*t lol
basically the further in it goes the better it feels for the guy (and the more discomfort it creates for the girl i'm guessing)
if you have asked him not to do it - then he should not do it...
and if he continues to do so tell him you wont do it any more...
he will soon stop!Health Question & Answer
basically the further in it goes the better it feels for the guy (and the more discomfort it creates for the girl i'm guessing)
if you have asked him not to do it - then he should not do it...
and if he continues to do so tell him you wont do it any more...
he will soon stop!Health Question & Answer
yes it is really normal i think it is like to get there plessure better as then u get it all and stuff anyway
i do find it worrying tht u have told him not to do it and yet he persists i think u should talk to him outside of the act and ask him again not to and if he does then i would take it that he obviously doesnt respect u and therefore u should stop sleeping with him and the relationshipHealth Question & Answer
i do find it worrying tht u have told him not to do it and yet he persists i think u should talk to him outside of the act and ask him again not to and if he does then i would take it that he obviously doesnt respect u and therefore u should stop sleeping with him and the relationshipHealth Question & Answer
Hi yes they all do it and yes its a sort of power thing. If you have told him you don't like it just give his knob a little nip each time he puts his hands on your head he will soon get the message I've done it many times It worksHealth Question & Answer
because guys like to be deep in the throat, it's called deep throating and if you won't do it, he will make you do it. just choke and bite it and he won't do it again, promise.Health Question & Answer
its normal.
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On my own experience....i find it more sexually exciting to hold her head all the way down to my horn. i dont know how to explain but its exciting to some guysHealth Question & Answer
Just tell him if he's gonna do that you wont suck it anymore. Or do like Jill and give it a nip.Health Question & Answer
I normally hold onto a girls head tooHealth Question & Answer
I do the same thing with my girlfriend.Health Question & Answer
you should bite it. he should lay off the porn. if he does it refuse to do it untill he listensHealth Question & Answer
its normal helps him to force u more over his penis and u get deep throat too u like it yes.?Health Question & Answer
He'd seen too many movies...Health Question & Answer
because when he explodes in your mouth he expects you to swallow his semenHealth Question & Answer