Is this guy obsessed with me? Need opinions....................!
Question: Is this guy obsessed with me.? Need opinions......................?
There is this guy who goes to my school, i think he may have be obsessed or secretly in love with me, but i need opinions...please help.
Here is a list of things he does-
I sit next to him in history class. We sit at tables. In class, he kicks my foot lightly purposely and looks at me as he does it. He also rests his leg beneath my foot in class.
He always stares at me. When I walk by him or turn in a test or even when I am sitting next to him, he is always looking at me.
Noone ever comes to my soccer games, the only people ever watching are parents of my teammates. But he and his friend go to the games and he said he wants to come to all the games. His excuse is that my team is so bad his friend thinks its funny...But i think the real reason is because he wants to watch me play.
Does he seem obsessed.? stalking me.?.? help.?.? I kind of like him but Im not sure because why wouldnt he ask me out if he likes me.?Health Question & Answer
Here is a list of things he does-
I sit next to him in history class. We sit at tables. In class, he kicks my foot lightly purposely and looks at me as he does it. He also rests his leg beneath my foot in class.
He always stares at me. When I walk by him or turn in a test or even when I am sitting next to him, he is always looking at me.
Noone ever comes to my soccer games, the only people ever watching are parents of my teammates. But he and his friend go to the games and he said he wants to come to all the games. His excuse is that my team is so bad his friend thinks its funny...But i think the real reason is because he wants to watch me play.
Does he seem obsessed.? stalking me.?.? help.?.? I kind of like him but Im not sure because why wouldnt he ask me out if he likes me.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
u like him but dont ask him out.. smae with him ure both too scared to ask each other out.. so do ureselfs a favour and just ask him outHealth Question & Answer
Obsessed, no. He want's to get to know you better, but is afraid. to start talking to you. It's a guy thing.Health Question & Answer
he probably wants to get with you, just tell him to f*k offHealth Question & Answer
Based on all that alone I would hardly say he is "obsessed" with you. He most likely just has a crush on you and hasn't worked up the courage to ask you out. And to be honest you don't seem at all interested in him. So if he does ask you out, let him down easily. Don't be mean about it. It really messes with guy's self esteem if they straight shot down and insulted when they ask a girl out.
At the same time if he really starts stalking you or acting out in ways that really really creepy (like showing up to your door at 3 in the morning) you need to establish your boundries and make sure he knows if he doesn't leave you alone, you'll get him into trouble for harassment. Still though don't freak out over this guy - unless he really starts to bother you. But a simple tap on the foot is just how he is trying to flirt with you, so be nice and either flirt back or make it clear, tactfully, that you are not interested in him.Health Question & Answer
At the same time if he really starts stalking you or acting out in ways that really really creepy (like showing up to your door at 3 in the morning) you need to establish your boundries and make sure he knows if he doesn't leave you alone, you'll get him into trouble for harassment. Still though don't freak out over this guy - unless he really starts to bother you. But a simple tap on the foot is just how he is trying to flirt with you, so be nice and either flirt back or make it clear, tactfully, that you are not interested in him.Health Question & Answer
Obsessed.? No. Interested, yes. He's flirting with you dear, and I'd bet you have been doing some flirting back or he'd have stopped by now. This is the oldest dance in the world. He probably wants to ask you out, and is afraid you will say no. If you are interested in him as you say, then it's up to you to provide some encouragement and pave the way. Since he comes to your games, tell him that you are glad he's not coming to laugh and look forward to seeing somebody who isn't a parent there to cheer you on. Given enough encouragement, he may well find the words to ask you out. If not, then you can help there too. You can mention a movie you want to see, but not alone. You could even ask him out. If you want this to go anywhere, it's time you made your flirting efforts a little more encouraging to him. Health Question & Answer