Never wanting to have an orgasm again?!


Question: Never wanting to have an orgasm again.?
Hello there.
OK, let's start from the beginning:
When I was about ten years old (Had not started to masturbate) I slept over at my cousins who was in her 20s then. My problem is that I sort of gets an orgasm when I see and hear keyboard-typing a lot. Btw it is much better nowadays. However, when we should get into bed for the night she told me she was just going to check her e-mail and I said OK. I don't think I had ever experienced this problem of mine before. When she started typing and I lay in bed, that is when things started to happen. I can't remember clearly but today I see it as the most horrible thing that has ever happened to me. When she started typing I got an orgasm. I had never had one before so I didn't know what was happening to me. This orgasm was not pleasant because this was connected to a bad thing - the typing. Anyway I got orgasm after orgasm and ran up to the toilet. I remember I cried and was curious what the sticky thing was that came out of me. When she was done checking her email we got to bed and slept. I can't remember how I slept that night, but I don't think it was pleasant.
I don't expect you to understand this as I think I'm the only one in the world with this problem but I expect you to try, because this is a huge problem. I've had 1-2 orgasm after this and that was terrifying. I'm thinking I'm never going to be able to have sex because I think it's unpleasant and I really do wanna have girlfriend and so on.

Another problem, which is connected to this, is lately I have had problems with unreality. I looked up it on google about a month ago and finally I got an answer: depersonalization. I have had this for about 1? years now. The reason I write this is because I read on Wikipedia that you can get Depersonalization after abuse. I don't say it was an abuse but it felt like it. Is it possible to get depersonalization this late.?
I appreciate an answer, thank you!Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Hey, guy, you really need to be talking to a real, live professional therapist. You'll get more out of a session with a therapist than you will from the opinions of a bunch of amateurs. There could be any number of causes for your mixed up feelings and associations and only an experienced professional should be trusted to help you sort them out. Otherwise you risk making things worse or worrying about all the wrong things. Ask your doctor for a referral. You're as entitled to enjoy sex as anyone else. Go for it. Good luck and God bless.
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Um.........one question.?

How the hell did you type all of that without the "unpleasant" experience of orgasm.?


If I could c um by typing, I'd start a novel.


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Its ok son. MY dady talked to me about sexual intercourse last night. he told me that babys come from women. PSHH what a retard. Orgasmns are fun. You get them everynight before you go to bed. Ok good night sonHealth Question & Answer

um thats wierd but yeah you can get the unreal feeling anytime its ually caused by anxiety or depression but it will pass.Health Question & Answer

I think you need a psychiatrist or psychologist for this problem. They might help you unveil why you think an orgasm is horrible since there is obviously other roots to your problem. I've also had depersonalization and it lasted around 3 months for me. Anyone at anytime can get it and there's no cure unfortunatelyHealth Question & Answer



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