Will my husband ever forgive me?!
Question: Will my husband ever forgive me.?
I am 25 and my husband is 28, we have been married for 4 years. we love each other so much its sick(in a good way). Recently about 2 months ago i made a huge mistake of having a one night stand.I have been under a lot of stress lately. I told him about it myself & he flipped at me(understandable) but said he never wants to lose me. I have been regretting it ever since & am doing everything to win his trust back. He can bearly touch me anymore let alone have a proper conversation with me, although he still sleeps with me when he feels like it. I packed everything from NY & moved to New Jersey to live with him, and still travel to the city to work which is hard. Will we ever be the way we use to be with each other or is it all over for us.? He is the only stable man i have in my life as my dad is very dangerous & has been in jail since i was a child & my mother died of an over dose when i was 16, so he has always been there for me and i owe him so much!Health Question & Answer
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im not too sure why everyone says he will forgive you is getting thumbs downs.. you obviously care about him and are feeling the effects/worrying about this or you wouldnt be asking this to strangers. We all make mistakes, whats most important is that you learned from this and will never do it again. I'm sure he will forgive you if he really loves you, as you do for him.Health Question & Answer
Under a lot of stress so you cheated.? Get over your pathetic excuses and admit to yourself why you did it.
When you do that and realise there are problems between the two of you, then you can start sorting things out - assuming he's still around for you to patch things up with.
Forgiveness from him will come when you sort your problems out. If you don't then you are stuffed.Health Question & Answer
When you do that and realise there are problems between the two of you, then you can start sorting things out - assuming he's still around for you to patch things up with.
Forgiveness from him will come when you sort your problems out. If you don't then you are stuffed.Health Question & Answer
ignore all the people who say he wont forgive you because if he loves you he will. you have probably just knocked his confidence and trust in you and when you win it back you two will be fine again. just try to think of what you did that made him like and fall in love with yolu the first time and he should do it again. =D good luck!Health Question & Answer
if he really loves you he will,
my mom kinda was having an affair with a guy from highschool and my dad found out and they were ready to get divorce and after a few really bad weeks they decided to work on it and then they went to a concelor and now they are like all over one another all the time its acutally kinda gross for me but yeaHealth Question & Answer
my mom kinda was having an affair with a guy from highschool and my dad found out and they were ready to get divorce and after a few really bad weeks they decided to work on it and then they went to a concelor and now they are like all over one another all the time its acutally kinda gross for me but yeaHealth Question & Answer
I don't think he will forgive you. Life in not a game. You really screwd up big time.
There is no excuse for cheating on him. Sure, he might stay with you but he will never forget you cheated on him. You will have to try REAL hard to get his forgiveness or else you might lose him.
Hope everything goes well!Health Question & Answer
There is no excuse for cheating on him. Sure, he might stay with you but he will never forget you cheated on him. You will have to try REAL hard to get his forgiveness or else you might lose him.
Hope everything goes well!Health Question & Answer
jeeze casey why did you have to go and cheat . these days people just don't appreciate loyalty and that sucks and i know from my disasters and yeah i'm bitter but i would have still forgiven her if there had been a chance for us so please give your guy time and make him aware how much you regret it and he may take you back for real ,good luckHealth Question & Answer
i have come across this problem many many times.. when a woman goes out into another mans arms there certainly has to be a reason for it. i'm sure you had all the love you needed, but it seems at that moment you had physical needs more than emotional..has he given you optimum physical needs before this incident.?Health Question & Answer
If you really loved him you wouldn't have cheated. And he will never forget and never really forgiveHealth Question & Answer
Not if he's got any sense no.
I take it because you asked this in mens health you possibly passed on some disease to him, poor guy.Health Question & Answer
I take it because you asked this in mens health you possibly passed on some disease to him, poor guy.Health Question & Answer
I think that if you try hard enough, and you really loved him, that he will forgive you.Health Question & Answer
depends on the guy, but even if he forgives you, he will never trust you as much.Health Question & Answer
ONCE a cheat allways a CHEATHealth Question & Answer
yes he will.Health Question & Answer
if i were him i would leave you because you are a skank!Health Question & Answer
give him timeHealth Question & Answer
that wasn't very nice....Health Question & Answer
i dont think he will forgive you
i never forgived my ex for that
therefore shes gone now...idk about him thoughHealth Question & Answer
i never forgived my ex for that
therefore shes gone now...idk about him thoughHealth Question & Answer
I agree with the above poster. There is no excuse for why you cheated. Don't give that stress bs. You let your primal urges get the better of you.
If he is staying with you, he is trying to forgive you. He is a bigger man than me because I would've left you if I was in his position. But time does heal all wounds. Give him a bit more time, and talk to him about it again.
also realize you are 100% wrong and there was no reason to do what you did except for your own selfish shortcomings. Once you confront your flaw, and your mistake, you can grow as a human being, and you can both grow as a couple.
also, a marraige counselor can help. It's good to get an unbias, third party opinion on the situation.Health Question & Answer
If he is staying with you, he is trying to forgive you. He is a bigger man than me because I would've left you if I was in his position. But time does heal all wounds. Give him a bit more time, and talk to him about it again.
also realize you are 100% wrong and there was no reason to do what you did except for your own selfish shortcomings. Once you confront your flaw, and your mistake, you can grow as a human being, and you can both grow as a couple.
also, a marraige counselor can help. It's good to get an unbias, third party opinion on the situation.Health Question & Answer
dang well he should it sounds like you guys have been in love before so yes he should if he really cares he'll call back but just give him a while to let you back in his life as long as he knows your not perfect and as long as he knows that you tried your hardest and that is all that matters but it sounds like you just hit a bump in the road and realize that you won't do this again and you'll be ok i know what your going through i did something like that so i know hun just let it go and he'll come crawling back to you cause you guys have it planedHealth Question & Answer
its going to take more than 2 months to deal with this on his end. if he really loves you he'll eventually move on and forgive you.. but i dont think things will ever get back to before. hell my gf had a 1 night stand before we got together (we were just talking), its been a year and it still bugs me on some level. most men are very territorial, itll talk time for him to warm up again, and remember that you're his (and i dont mean in a possesive property kinda way :)
it sounds like hes just withdrawling, which makes sense, especially since you say hes always been there for you and youv been thru alot. maybe he needs some time to worry about himself, and sort things out. make sure you're there for him to, and answer any (and i mean ANY) questions he may have about the incident, what you want, or himself, because honestly thats the only way it will get better.
have you considdered seeing a counselor.?Health Question & Answer
it sounds like hes just withdrawling, which makes sense, especially since you say hes always been there for you and youv been thru alot. maybe he needs some time to worry about himself, and sort things out. make sure you're there for him to, and answer any (and i mean ANY) questions he may have about the incident, what you want, or himself, because honestly thats the only way it will get better.
have you considdered seeing a counselor.?Health Question & Answer