Why would someone never feel like they are good enough?!


Question: Why would someone never feel like they are good enough.?
Like you feel like no matter what, you don't deserve/ aren't good enough for your job, boyfriend/girlfriend, or hobby. What would it mean when a person felt like almost every compliment was a lie, and that behind most acts of kindness was scorn or pity.? What would this person do to remedy this.? This person wants to change, wants to feel good enough, but just cant. What would this person do to remedy this situation.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
At some point in time, I'd think everyone would feel that way about something. And, then you get your family, who maybe judgmental about you. I went through that. and, then I became angry. and then I changed me. and then I became intolerable to anyone's judgments of myself, because I became my own best friend. And, then oddly enough, I was able to accept complements. I became good enough. I became goal oriented, and proud of myself. I know you can do it too. :). It is just a phase we all go through. It is getting out of that phase that takes courage.Health Question & Answer

I went through that, it was literally impossible for me to believe that anything about me was good, not a thing, and I was very convincing too. It turned out I had a pretty bad case of depression. I personally got out of it without medical intervention, I just sought the help from those who I knew had to love me. It worked for me.
That may not be the case for you, and it might not work for you in the same way it worked for me, I would go seek help, even if it was just from a councilor or someone who you love. It'll get better, I promise. You do deserve everything good that comes your way.

Best wishes.Health Question & Answer

That was me. How did I change myself.? Solved what was troubling me.

Want to know what my problem was.? At the age of 13 no one told me that I needed to clean under my foreskin. After about 1 month after reaching puberty I stopped masturbating because I thought that the smell was because I masturbated. After about 6 more months I completely stopped feeling horny because I started getting anxiety. I also had a really dark past and I couldn't escape it. By the age of 13 I didn't really care that my dad used to beat me or that my step dad was an asshole (I wasn't all innocent in this either, I would punch my siblings in the gut and I would fight with them and I would yell at them until the sun came down). So for about 2 and a half years I thought that the smell was there because I masturbated, I also started to get really itchy down there because I never cleaned it I thought that I had a STI even though I never had sex (no **** what girl would like me). My step-dad would make fun of me because I smelled really bad, I think he knew that I didn't know that I was supposed to clean myself, same with all the kids at school and that meant that no one wanted to be my friend. That's what made me feel like I wasn't good enough, I had 90%'s in school while I thought I was a piece of crap that needed to die. I eventually started to piss the people off that were in my life (it didn't really matter that I had no friends because I was going to kill myself anyways). I started doing some really stupid ****. And that's what caused me to become someone who hated myself. My grades started to fall down. I would wear the same clothes each and every day and my clothes were all dirty and everything because I didn't really care.

Now I'm 16 years old and the way that I solved my problems was by going on the internet and discovering that masturbating is normal. That made me go to the doctor and the doctor said that I had no problems and that the itchiness will go away if I continued to clean myself.

Be happy that you didn't go through what I did. By the end of it I felt like I needed to get out of my body and that I needed to hang myself. Various times I started to go through the motions of stabbing myself. I also poured hot sauce at the urethra because I thought that the masturbation caused nocturnal emissions (I thought that masturbation made my urethra weak or something and that the hot sauce would make my urethra "strong") (I thought that I was cumming 24/7 when it was just pee that came from my irritated bladder, I really don't know or maybe it was because I never masturbated). I did this every day for about a month, I don't know why I stopped. I would also stay up till 5:30 working out because a website that I found told me that exercising would stop the nocturnal emissions. I would go to sleep for 2 hours a day to avoid the nocturnal emissions. This happened for about two years. My elbows are messed up from over exercising and I get stressed out lately. I felt heavy each and every single day and I felt so weak and I would stay on the computer from when I woke up to whenever the sun came up (would stay up until 6:00 in the morning playing MMORPGS), same thing would happen when I came home from school.

So that's how I solved my problems. You probably think I'm bullshitting but that's okay because this doesn't happen to many people.

Something that I find really funny: I have a facebook account and for some reason, some really weird reason, I always find that I have one less friend every time someone changes schools or every time someone knows that I will never see them again. That's okay, they don't know what was going on in my life.

And if you really want to solve your problems ask what your problem is, that way we can help you solve your problems and that will mean that you don't need to pointlessly regret your life or what happened to you. And yes I began thinking that everyone around me was a fake, I began thinking that the world was controlling by a family named the Rothchilds family (not saying its true and not saying it's a lie), I started believing a lot of crazy stuff. I thought that everyone was lying to me each and every single day. But that's what happens when you don't socially mature, that's what happens when you isolate yourself. That's the exact reason why people that are like the old me need to get out more.Health Question & Answer



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