Dating and aspergers?!


Question: Dating and aspergers.?
i am 17 years old and most likely to have aspergers. Is it ok to date when u have aspegers i mean i don't see a problem with it. Sometimes i get moody and frustrated but instead of talking i just curl up and not talk and he says "i don't no how much more i can take" i cant help it i seriously don't no what to do. should i just give up on dating.? help!Health Question & Answer


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It helps if you get some help to learn how to read the emotions and facial expressions of others. When you get frustrated, make sure you are eating properly with high protein and low sugar. also, try to listen to what others are saying and then respond to what they say. Be careful not to just talk about your special interests. People need to know you care about how they feel and what they are interested in. Aspergers reach the flight or fight response at a much earlier level in conversations. Therefore you will have to train yourself out of this response being able to put it off so you can communicate more like person without Aspergers. That means when you become frustrated, you have to decide to still talk. If you care about your boyfriend, you need to respect his feelings and he needs you to listen to him. If you trust that he loves you, you must trust that he wants to talk in order to become closer to you. also, pray for help in relationship. God wants you to have others in your life and not be isolated and he will help you if you give it to him. God bless.Health Question & Answer

It is perfectly fine to date no matter what you may be diagnosed as having. You will need to find that special someone out there that understands this is just a part of you and no reflection of them or their own personalities. You will find that someone and in the mean time I would advise you to read up on Aspergers Sydrome as much as you can so you understand it better. If you find the person you are dating is becoming someone special or serious you can sit him down and tell him about it as well as what to expect with it. This gives the person some insight and at least he will not be shocked or complain about the way you handle things or your mood spells. People are more afraid of what they don't know than anything else so be as honest as you can about it and encourage them to ask questions. If you don't know the answer maybe you can both do the research together to find the answer. Please don't give up and remember - there IS someone for everyone out there! Enjoy life to your fullest ability and know you have many years to go before you worry about settling down with anyone yet. This gives you plenty of time to get counseling with someone who is specifically trained in Aspergers, gives you time to learn your own body and mind and will give you the time to know exactly what you want to find in that special someone. You can live a fairly normal life with this syndrome and you can be a happy, healthy mom and wife someday. Best of luck to you, honey, and know that there are folks out there who are rooting for you!Health Question & Answer

Have you ever tried massage to help ease the nerves and moodiness.? I dont know much about aspergers disease, but i DO know that massage has many more benfits other than the physical aspect.
Im sorry i couldnt help you out more.Health Question & Answer

don't give up. try to talk about things, communication is important. he might get frustrated, but that's not your fault! find a guy who will love you for exactly who you are.Health Question & Answer



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