I don't know how too handle death?!


Question: I don't know how too handle death.?
okay my mom's boyfriend just recently passed away in a car accident and i don't know how to handle it i mean i never really liked him but like his accident hit me hard and i cried about it. so please help me figure out why i cried about it! and my mom was in love with him she figured he was her soulmate and he passed away on the 20th and he was supposed to come and see us on the 30th of this month. i mean he sounded like an okay person but to me he sounded to perfect and i don't understand why i cried about it is it b/c i'm too emotional or is it normal for people to cry about death.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Hey
its okay to cry
i think deeper inside you liked him
Im dont know but
maybe because he was the guy that makes your mother happy..

but how i see it -
your tears show how much love you have for your mother
and her bf ya know

but hey..
"death" is lonley because we all die alone

we fear it because nobody wants to be alone..

but that too shows how much you want to be with someone
someone special or everyone special

isn`t that what "love" is .?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?.?

but im not afraid of death
cause my dog is always here with me Health Question & Answer

Don't worry about crying because somebody you knew died.
We all do it, we're human beings.
Life is always followed by death, but we always think about people growing old and dying. When somebody younger dies we feel cheated because we think that the person didn't get to have al the years that they should have had.
There were only two funerals of loved ones that I didn't cry because at the time I was taking an antidepressant that numbed the pain I felt.
It does get easier after a while.Health Question & Answer

yeah its normal to cry about death.

was he christian.? if he was then be happy, cuz hes in a better place for eternity.

if he wasnt... well pray for him, cuz he might be in a worse place for eternity.Health Question & Answer

Because it was shocking news. And seeing your mom devastated was probably hard on you as well
and death is a sad thingHealth Question & Answer



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