How to redeem myself after lashing out?!
Question: How to redeem myself after lashing out.?
I have... and I tried getting closure (and my keys back- I gave his back earlier in our relationship because I knew it wouldn't work out). He lied to me instead of just letting me go. Being ignored brings out the worst in me. How do I redeem myself after lashing out at him for lying (that he didn't have time for me b/c of work, then was looking for a girl on a website).? After I lashed out at him (in texts- no profanity- just told him it really hurt), I followed up 3x for my keys in a week. He's not responding and must think I'm stalking him. I'm in need of redemption. I do not normally act so insecure... What to do.?
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yo i dont think ur in a position where u need redemption, i fully agree with ur actions. if theres a guy running around out there with a key to ur place, who knows what he'll end up doing. i actually think u should continue bugging him about it so he'll get so annoyed that he'll give it back.
but since u said u feel insecure, u prlly wouldn't wanna do that. u could always just change the lock on ur door so his copy of the key would be ineffective.
as for redemption, in whose eyes do u wanna redeem urself; his or yours.? to me, it doesnt seem like youve done anything wrong; this guy doesnt want to give ur keys back and hes ignoring u about it and thats not cool. so dont feel bad about yourself, u were just doing what needs to be done. and for the guy, if hes doing this to u hes clearly not worth redeeming urself in his eyes (if that makes any sense....lol)
anyways thats my 2 cents on ur situation. hope everything works outHealth Question & Answer
but since u said u feel insecure, u prlly wouldn't wanna do that. u could always just change the lock on ur door so his copy of the key would be ineffective.
as for redemption, in whose eyes do u wanna redeem urself; his or yours.? to me, it doesnt seem like youve done anything wrong; this guy doesnt want to give ur keys back and hes ignoring u about it and thats not cool. so dont feel bad about yourself, u were just doing what needs to be done. and for the guy, if hes doing this to u hes clearly not worth redeeming urself in his eyes (if that makes any sense....lol)
anyways thats my 2 cents on ur situation. hope everything works outHealth Question & Answer