I always feel guilty when... [please help!]?!


Question: I always feel guilty when... [please help!].?
i kiss a guy that im not going out with
why is this.?

is it like when 2 people have sex, and there not married and they feel guilty because sex is for MARRIED people

like at a party a guy kissed me and i kissed back and i felt perfectly fine, and i was smileing and all happy

but now since ive slept on it [and he texted me this morning] ive started to feel guilty and been thinking "what have i gotten myself into.?"

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING.?!.?!.?!
this has also happened before when i REALLY liked a guy, and he kissed me [and we werent going out] and i felt terrible inside about it. and i really really liked him too.?

whats going on.?

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There is nothing wrong with the way you feel, it means you have set a values and when you violated one of them it made you feel guilty. Kissing is a very intimate thing to do, because it is an exchange of bodily fluids. How more intimate can you get with your clothes on. Keep your values, That and our name (character) is really all we have that we can control in life.Health Question & Answer

KISSING IS QUITE COMMON........its a common guesture to greet, to express your likeness to others and its sometimes emotional without any feelings

But sex is only wen u get aroused of your physical needs and get them satisfied. thats the reason ppl choose to get married and them get ther desires satisfied. Havin sex with others is not appreciable. Anywaz, as u hav already done it, it doesnt make much difference if you think abt it or not. or feel like an angel or like a sinner

Doing mistakes is not a sin, but repeating mistakes is a sin.
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dont worry about it its just a kiss. if its worryin you then you should set the guys right wen they go to kiss you and your not going out with them otherwise there probably gonna land you in deep trouble. they might start calling you a hoe, slut etrc and get you into something you really dont want to get intoHealth Question & Answer

Just chill. There is no reason to feel guilty if you want to have a little fun without making a commitment to someone. Just don't let it develop into having sex with everyone you meet as you get older.Health Question & Answer

no !this is all wrong !
u can get a kiss but not sex!
if you are couple ,it doesn't mean that you will get married .am i correct.?
if i were boy ,i would find girls are never get in the bed .seriously..Health Question & Answer

Most people won't do that, and it sounds like you really usually don't either. Or at least your subconscious doesn't want you to! Try to control yourself...and the guys!

Good Luck!
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your just like me! You only like relationships, and the security of one.

Just tell boys that you only do stuff with them if you are their girl.Health Question & Answer

maybe you were drunk. and so when you were drunk he was cute and now your sober so he isnt cute... Health Question & Answer

Oh, my gosh....get over yourself. A kiss is just a kiss!Health Question & Answer

First of all, may I ask how old you are.? This is important because if you're like 15 you shouldn't be going around making out with random guys. also, no matter what age, i think when you kiss someone, its supposed to be something special but it sounds like its just no big deal to you. Only kiss guys if you're REALLY IN LOVE with them or you will keep feeling guilty. also, is this guy decent.? If no then don't waste your time. Life is too short to worry about stupid guys. My advice: find someone that is even more special than anyone you have ever met. Don't just kiss him right away. First wait until he asks you out. Then when you go to kiss him you wont feel guilty, it will be the exact opposite of what's happening now.Health Question & Answer



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