For recovered alcoholics or others who dealt with addiction?!
Question: For recovered alcoholics or others who dealt with addiction.?
how did you relearn how to do everything without alcohol.? for instance one thing im really having trouble with is i only had sex while drunk, minus one boyfriend who was horrible so even further ruined sober sex for me, and even though im confident while drunk and know what im doing and how to have a good time, im so nervous to have sex while sober, i almost feel like its going to be my first time again and i have a lot of anxiety about it, how do i get over this.?Health Question & Answer
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I've been sober for a long time now. I really do understand what you are saying. I am male however. It really is like being a virgin all over again. I was luck to find a lady that was really turned on by that. We played together for a year or more.
I do have a suggestion for you however. Attend AA, and talk with other lady's there, they either are going through the same or have been through it. In general the policy is that women talk with women, and men talk with men about sexual matters.
In any case congratulations on your sobriety. All my best to you.Health Question & Answer
I do have a suggestion for you however. Attend AA, and talk with other lady's there, they either are going through the same or have been through it. In general the policy is that women talk with women, and men talk with men about sexual matters.
In any case congratulations on your sobriety. All my best to you.Health Question & Answer
Ive been recovered for almost 15 yrs, thank God, and some things take time. Don't despair, it will fall into place like other things, and you will find a joy in remembering doing things rather than wondering if you had a good time or if you even did anything. Like they say in certain places-- time takes time. I am a very content man for the most part even though I still make mistakes, but the mistakes I make are no longer life-threatening to me or others.Take care and be well.Health Question & Answer
you have to keep in mind that you probably drank to get away from your feelings. so in general when you learn how to handle your feelings without alcohol your natural self will come through and the same applies to sex.Health Question & Answer