HOw to not be jaded about love when you have lost love before/?!
Question: Hi, I have had a couple of long term boyfrineds, and have dated a little, and so far I dont seem to be compatable with anyone. Its always either are circumstances or personality. In fact, I think guys dont like me, becuase I dont really care that much for love anymore. I dont get excited about it like they do. I have always been an introvert, and somewhat emotionally distant from people I dont know really really well. Any suggestions for getting that spark back.
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This is like placing your hand on a hot stove. You get burned, for the rest of you life you are going to look at that stove and say "I burned my hand on that stove!" Recognize this reaction is automatic. Meet other boys, be normal, recognize this automatic reaction, but control it by realizing there is a lot of great guys out there. Give yourself time and you will find true love. Sometimes it takes a while.
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Well, just wait a while and hang in there. The old black magic may someday work again. As Carly Simon once sang "Love's comin' round again!"
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