For the guy who wouldn't mind giving some advice? I have no brother to ask haha?!
Question: For the guy who wouldn't mind giving some advice.? I have no brother to ask haha.?
shouldn't the two people know whether they want to be together long term or not.? I'm not talking about people fresh out of highschool- I mean a girl in her mid twenties, and a guy in his late twenties.?
I also do NOT mean an engagement. If one party says they aren't sure what they want as far as the relationship's direction isn't that a bad sign -after nearly a year of so much condensed time together AND when they made it seem like a serious thing.? [he has had me meet the parents...all his extended family.. took vacations together and has given no reason for me to believe he isn't serious. he has had some doubts out of the blue recently! -and it was for dumb, little reasons that he never brought up before. don't know if it has anything to do with it, but my younger sis recently got engaged].
He does love me, and we're going fine...but i want to make sure i'm not wasting my time, because what he said confused me and now i feel myself pulling back a bit. :/
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I also do NOT mean an engagement. If one party says they aren't sure what they want as far as the relationship's direction isn't that a bad sign -after nearly a year of so much condensed time together AND when they made it seem like a serious thing.? [he has had me meet the parents...all his extended family.. took vacations together and has given no reason for me to believe he isn't serious. he has had some doubts out of the blue recently! -and it was for dumb, little reasons that he never brought up before. don't know if it has anything to do with it, but my younger sis recently got engaged].
He does love me, and we're going fine...but i want to make sure i'm not wasting my time, because what he said confused me and now i feel myself pulling back a bit. :/
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Answers:
Maintaining any relationship requires constant self-discipline from both parties. It's because people don't understand this that friendships fail, and marriages fail.
If you are both dedicated to putting the other first, you'll be able to work this out. It may last, or it may not, but complete honesty is essential. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
If you are both dedicated to putting the other first, you'll be able to work this out. It may last, or it may not, but complete honesty is essential. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Hey,
If you notice little hints that he is not dedicated and seeking the same thing you're seeking. Let him go. By your age, people should be mature enough to be truthful with each other and not bother in the trifles of worrying about hurting the other. If you don't have the same goal(s) in mind. You are wasting your time. Don't let him keep you hanging on, only to cause pain and consternation later.
There are no coincidences. Just the appearance of coincidences.Health Question & Answer
If you notice little hints that he is not dedicated and seeking the same thing you're seeking. Let him go. By your age, people should be mature enough to be truthful with each other and not bother in the trifles of worrying about hurting the other. If you don't have the same goal(s) in mind. You are wasting your time. Don't let him keep you hanging on, only to cause pain and consternation later.
There are no coincidences. Just the appearance of coincidences.Health Question & Answer
Not necessarily. There are so many changes into today's world, that 'forever' in a relationship can seem almost impossible. That's not to say it won't happen, only that after just one year, it may be a little unrealistic to think in terms of long-term. Health Question & Answer
Hey well some relationships are meant to be and some are not. I have been in relationships that last longer than a year and stuff just stopped working for us and it went all down hill. Whatever it is that you do, make sure that you do it for yourself. You need to be happy also.Health Question & Answer
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